What I've learned is that if you’re going to engage in
a romantic relationship during your young adult years, it damn well better be
with someone who makes your insides explode with nothing but positive emotion. Someone
who takes the time to be kind, patient and understanding, more often than not,
and who is as warm with their words as they are with their touch. Life is too
short to be focused on people who do not have your growth and best interest in
mind. The right person will love you in a way that makes you feel completely
free and accepted within your own skin. They won’t attempt to hinder your
development out of fear or insecurity that your new experiences might lead you
into the arms of someone else. Good lovers will desire to see your personal
success just as much as you do, and they will support and respect your
decisions. Stay away from people who make you feel guilty about desiring the
best for yourself. They don’t love you for you; they love you for what you can
provide for them. And that is not love.
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