Friday, 6 January 2017

Abuse in a relationship

It starts off with him telling you not to look at other guys when you’re with him because it’s disrespectful. He will make you feel like chivalry is a chore or something he does to mould your impression about him but it’s not genuine. Then he’ll have a problem with you interacting with other men, even if it’s a sales man. Any eye contact made by another man will be your fault. He will start telling you how to dress and that you should cover up, even though he spends his spare time liking pictures of half naked women online and entertaining them. He will belittle your words, your opinions and silent your thoughts. He will make your accomplishments seem small. You will find yourself walking on egg shells just to avoid offending him. Anytime you have an argument or question his behaviour, he will call you ugly and insecure, worthless and claim that no other man would want you.
And then he will apologise with empty promises and act like everything is perfect. 
Don’t accept his apology. 
He’ll never change. 
This is not okay. 
Leave.

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