Learn how to give a proper apology.

 

I feel like a few people don't know how to apologize properly. 

As someone who messes up frequently and issues a lot of apologies, here's how to!

Also, remember, an apology is a genuine effort at contrition. Don't offer excuses or push it back at them. You're attempting to show them that you deserve their forgiveness.

First, say what you did. Explicitly. And clearly. For example, "I was careless and accidentally broke your television."

Second, apologize. This part's easy. "I wanted to properly apologize for doing so. I'm incredibly sorry."

Third, explain why what you did was wrong. "I should've taken more care and not been drunk."

Fourth, explain what you're going to do to stop it from happening again, or make it right. "I'm going to make sure I'm not drinking again at your place - there's a lot of expensive stuff - and take more care in the future. I'm going to pay to replace it, as well."

Finally: Ask if they'll forgive you. "I hope you can forgive me, and again, I'm really sorry."

This is an amazing life skill. Being able to properly apologize has saved relationships - a good one can salvage so many things!